Reading for Today:
Proverb Chapter 11
Gold Nugget
Verse 17: “The merciful man does good for his own
soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.”
Commentary
When someone has wronged you we typically put them on our short list. So many violations and then they are out of our life. Where did we get the okay as humans who all err, or even worse Christians that have all “erred” and fell short of the Glory of God, to start even keeping a list? Mercy is better defined as “controlled” forgiveness. Basically, when we have a “right” (and I use that term loosely) to be angry and cut someone out, we show mercy by choosing to overlook the violation. That is to say, we don’t even charge their account. There is of course a wise time and place where we have to draw a line and protect ourselves and our family, but where we draw the line and where God would draw the line are usually two different locations. To forgive is to show mercy. The old saying, “To err is human, to forgive is divine”,
although not scripture per say, it is scriptural none the less. Today’s “gold
nugget” speaks on this very subject. “The
merciful man does good for his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own
flesh.”
One night I was in the backseat letting my daughter’s
husband (boyfriend at the time) drive us home. We went through an intersection
kind of fast, this while another car looked as if they weren't going to yield.
I expressed my concern for what had happened. His response was, “We had the
right of way”. I (half joking, half serious) replied, “Yeah, and they can put
that on our tombstones.” He’s a good guy, but the mind set was that of a young
man with much to learn. Being right doesn't always make it right. The point is,
we don’t always have to be right and someone else doesn't always have to be
wrong. Sometimes we need to be merciful to those that err and show the divine
character of God.
Elsewhere in Proverbs we read a powerful verse of scripture
if applied correctly. Proverbs 19:11 “The
discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, and his glory is to overlook a
transgression.” We need to throw away the score cards and show the divine
character of God that is merciful and forgiving. Is there anyone that you need
to show mercy today? If so, conform now to the Word of God and it will be as
today’s “gold nugget” says, “The merciful
man does good for his own soul,”
Prayer
Lord, there are
those that (in my mind) are not deserving of my tolerance and mercy, but I know
that I am just as undeserving of your tolerance and mercy. So for that, I
conform to your Word that says, “If I will not forgive others, you will not
forgive me”. Amen
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